Hi! I’m Kayla.
I help men and couples move out of patterns of disconnection, withdrawal, and conflict into clearer communication and deeper emotional connection.
I believe that the quality of our relationships - both with ourselves and others - is central to living a fulfilling life.
Relationship therapy in Arvada, CO
About Me
I was born and raised in a small town on the East Coast. After college, I spent over a decade working as an organizational psychologist and human resources professional in New York City. That chapter taught me a great deal about people, systems, and high-pressure environments. It also led me into burnout - a turning point that pushed me to reconsider how I wanted to live and how I related to myself and others.
In 2019, I moved to Colorado and began the process of redefining success, reconnecting with my values, and building a life that felt more balanced and authentic. During this time, I also began my Couples and Family Therapy program and threw myself in studying relationships. I wish I could say it was a single “aha” moment that created lasting change, but the truth is more nuanced. My high-achieving and self-abandoning patterns followed me, eventually leading me back into burnout - this time alongside a chronic illness. The difference now is that I have the tools, awareness, and support to find my way back to steadiness and to cultivate peace along the way.
This experience shapes my work as a therapist. I believe growth doesn’t come from “fixing” ourselves, but from understanding the patterns we’re caught in and learning how to relate to them differently. You may have heard the “Two Mountains” metaphor, which captures the kind of therapeutic relationship I aim to create. You and I are each climbing our own mountain - your path is uniquely yours, with its own challenges and terrain, while I climb mine alongside you. From my vantage point, I may be able to see obstacles or alternate paths that aren’t yet visible to you. My role is not to lead or direct, but to walk alongside you as a collaborative guide, an empathic witness, and a thoughtful process consultant.
I don’t have it all figured out, but I am committed to the climb - both figuratively and literally. Outside of the therapy room, rock climbing and time in nature anchor me. They help me stay grounded, present, and connected to my body, which in turn allows me to bring a steady, calm presence into my work and my relationships. I’m childfree, unless you ask my pets. My home (and heart) is full of animals, plants, books, and a love for vintage decor.
My Approach
My style is direct, grounded, and emotionally focused. I won’t just sit back and nod. I’ll help you:
· Slow things down in the moment
· Get clear on what you’re feeling and needing
· Say it in a way your partner can actually hear
· Respond differently when it matters most
For men, this often means learning how to engage emotionally without feeling overwhelmed or out of control.
For couples, it means stepping out of the same loop and into something more honest, steady, and connected.
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Marriage and Family Therapy Candidate (MFTC) licensed by the State of Colorado - MFTC.0014635
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M.A., Couple and Family Therapy - University at Colorado Denver
M.S., Industrial/Organizational Psychology - Baruch College, City University of New York
B.S., Business Administration; Human Resources, International Business - University at Buffalo, State University of New York
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Core Skills in Emotionally Focused Therapy - ICEEFT
Externship in Emotionally Focused Therapy - ICEEFT
Associate Certified Coach - International Coaching Federation (ICF)
Associate Diversity Coach - Coach Diversity Institute
Executive Function Coach Level 1 - Connections in Mind CiC
Certified Addiction Counselor (CAC) course requirements in progress - Odyssey Training Center
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Level 1 - Relational Life Therapy
Working with Men - Relational Life Therapy
Internal Family Systems Immersion - PESI
Mastering Internal Family Systems - PESI
THERAPY FOR COUPLES
Stuck in the same conflicts, feeling unheard and more like roommates than partners? Ready to break those patterns, communicate more effectively and reconnect? Reach out today to get started.
Therapy services
THERAPY FOR MEN
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Stress and overwhelm can lead us to overthinking, overreacting, or shutting down completely. Find emotional clarity through mindfulness and regulation.
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